From dictionary :
The word ‘friend’ means:
1.a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.
2.a person who gives assistance; patron; supporter
3.a person who is on good terms with another; a person who is not hostile
4.a member of the same nation, party, etc.
Yea…that’s what I get from the net. In reality, what does ‘friend’ mean to u? A guy told me that friends are to be used. Do U think so?
Then my tutor told that we should meet more friends in order to have more opportunity to get a higher paid job…
WaHHH?!! Everyone has become so reality!! But, I can’t disagree with them. It’s a fact.
There is hard to get friends who have the same interest. It’s real. Although I have a lot of classmates, we didn’t talk much. Once the class has finished, then all of us just leave the hall. Most of them already have their own gang, especially those who are from foundation. That is what a university life I have now.
Everything has changed. ...
*Congrates to likyi that u can perform on your college prom night !! ( I like ‘Valentine’ but it’s not suitable for you to sing only....dun blame the song lar..)
*Good luck to fish and shaerling in ur STPM !!
2 comments:
Thanks poyi!! This tiem no more 'valentine' di... it's 'funny valentine'... but i'm not sure i want to sing it oso lar.. i can't play piano the jazz way... so i'll stick with 'always on my mind' and others... well...about ur post... i think those hi-bye people, don't think of them as frens.. think of them as somebody you need help from.. bcz you're not expecting them to do appreciate you, and vice versa.. In this case, it's ok to be 'mean'... it's ur choice to identify, who's friends, and who's only 'sticks' u cling to when you need to achieve something.. they will never be ur friends...
Recently, i received sms from frens from primary who has been (*ahem*) so called long lost~ (cos nvr stay in touch for 5~6 years di) then when msg, the feel which was faded sort of came back abit.. but not so close anymore~
poyi.. there are a few types of frens de~ and there's companion, bestie, hi-byes, hang-out, gang etc. etc. learn to appreciate everyone who walk by your life cos they all do teach you things.. ^^
eg. hi-bye frens, still.. they are the once you know b4 fren.. just not close.. they do teach you abt, we are hi-bye, just like likyi says, we just say hi and bye.. nid help? ohh.. i dunno how to help de~ when with better gang, they dun care abt you.. and yet, in the end, you learn to be stronger~ ^^ look at the positive side my dear~ ^^
But there's something that i dun agree with lik yi saying, is that you think of frens(hi-byes) as someone u need help from~ when you befriend with someone at the first time, i dun think you already concluded that those are hi byes while others are not..Anyway,you make a fren with your heart.. not with a "expectation" in mind.. just different type of frens you use different % of your heart to deal with them~ ^^
It's true that in business, or any other line.. connection is essential~ as in, if the boss wanted a worker, of there's a choice, the boss would choose someone he knows (of cos skills are considered in) or someone his/her subordinates recommend~ ^^
sorry if i offended you or anything~ ^^ this is just my humble opinion~ ^^ Cheers!!
Take care Poyi~ Miss ya~ ^^ hope you feel better~
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